Blog posts of '2022' 'January'

"The sign of a person's true maturity is to find that there are fewer and fewer people to blame. The reason is very simple. Everyone has their difficulties, and you don't necessarily understand their lives. "There is no right or wrong in anything, only acceptance and not accepted. Use wisdom to change the things that can be changed, and embrace the things that cannot be changed with your heart. "Many troubles do not come from the outside world, but the heart. The bigger the tolerance, the fewer complaints to others; the higher the pattern, the fewer conflicts with others.

Recommendations on the Books to help you become Relatable, honest, funny, and wise and grow up ....

Middle School's a Drag, You Better Werk!

Wink

When You Reach Me

When Stars are Scattered

The interest of quiet life, the traces of silent years! A person who dares to laugh at himself is often wise and humorous, but also a magnanimous and brave person. Only those who are strong and confident in their hearts, who can calmly accept all of themselves, and who are real but imperfect, can achieve such a state. The era of resting on your laurels is over. An overly arrogant attitude can only lead to a dead end. Learning to lower your posture and dare to laugh at yourself is the expression of true self-confidence. When you learn to laugh at yourself, it is when you dare to analyze yourself. Only by seeing through yourself can you be free from distractions. At this time, the realm of life is bound to be broader. You know, daring to laugh at yourself is not only a social skill but also a kind of advanced self-confidence.

Recommendations on the Best Books About Life to Help You Find Your Meaning

The Fourfold Remedy: Epicurus and the Art of Happiness

A New Earth

Let Your Life Speak

The Celestine Prophecy

The Artist's Way

Alchemist

"It's as wrong to be careful with your heart, but to step back and think about everything." Smart people know how to take the initiative to suffer, because if you give in one step, others will often give in more, and the original dispute will become a comforting thing of mutual courtesy. People are mutual. If you care about me, I will care about you. If you are a person like this, you will not only feel at ease at the moment but also create good relationships. Life is alive, doing things is being a person, being generous, and suffering a little loss when things happen, all you get is good luck. In life, only if you know how to advance and retreat, and if you can bend and stretch, can you move forward freely. In this life, in order to truly live comfortably, at any time and in any position, one must not be afraid of suffering, maintain modesty, and be kind. Only in this way can you truly see everything in the world and yourself clearly, you will be thoughtful in your dealings with others, and your life and career will be smooth.

Recommend the Following Popular Books on <Time Management>

https://bebooks.com.au/wonder-4

Persepolis

Persepolis I & II

And Tango Makes Three: Age 4 - 8

And Tango Makes Three: Age 2 - 5

Change Sings A Children's Anthem

Grenade

We have known the universe but still pity the greenery. Because they understand, they are compassionate. "The real kindness is to do good without raising the flag; it is to accumulate virtue without being seen by others, it is the beauty of the moon, and the darkroom does not deceive." What shines in a person is kindness, education, tolerance, seeing the self-cultivation of the world, and a compassionate heart. The more outstanding a person is, the more humble and polite they are, and they treat every life with a normal heart. "One of the most beautiful compensations in life is that after helping others sincerely, you also help yourself." All the surprises and good luck in the world are the tenderness and kindness you have accumulated.

A person's achievement depends on the height at which he sees the problem. If you do things with a "worker's mentality", you will always feel that you are being exploited and targeted. But if you switch to the boss's position, you will find that many complaints are just because your vision is too limited. Changing positions can make life a lot easier, and the road will be wider and wider. The heart is wider than others, and the heart is gradually brightened by empathy. On the road of life, we will encounter many problems, and there are many ways to solve them, and the best way to solve them is to learn to change positions.

No matter how difficult the road ahead is, if you change your angle, you will suddenly become enlightened.

In a happy world, there is no place for the lazy. When a person chooses to lie down when it is time to work hard, he will turn the laziness of today into the hardship of tomorrow, in exchange for a lifetime of misery. "One out of ten people in the world give up because of difficulties, and nine out of ten people fail because of laziness." Laziness leads to poverty, and laziness leads to defeat. The first step for the poor to counterattack is to get rid of laziness from the bones. Snakes grow up in moulting, gold is scouring out of the sand, massage is comforting after pain, and spring is prosperity through winter. Humans cannot be reborn in an instant. The essence of growth is to fight against pain again and again. When you get through the test of peeling and cramping, the good things in life will come as promised.

In this world, everyone will have a time of helplessness and despair: life is frustrated, framed by others, slandered by others, and the way forward is lost... The wind will extinguish the candle, and it will also make the fire burn more and more vigorously. The real strong people regard the low valley as the training ground of life. "The final difference between people and people is the hurdles, whether you can get through it or not, you will be different after you pass." Find direction in adversity and hope in desperation. Trees are like this, so why aren't people? Suffering is thick soil, and life is evergreen. The strong do not never shed tears, but wipe away their tears and remain as sonorous as ever.

Recommended the Most Life-Changing Books

The Alchemist

The Little Prince: Popular Penguins or a different edition of The Little Prince

The Audacity Of Hope: Thoughts on Reclaiming the American Dream

The world comes in layers and layers, and the world climbs step by step.  A mountain is higher than the other. To tolerate the beauty of others, to control their own arrogance. Competitive, win for a while; broad-minded, win forever. The lack of material, the noisier; the cultivation base is not enough, the more flamboyant. The fastest way to destroy a person is to let him get carried away and make him arrogant and crazy. There are three growths in life: first, when you realize that you are no longer the centre of the world, second, when you realize that you can't do anything no matter how hard you try, and third when you accept your ordinary and enjoy it. No matter when you control your arrogance, allow other people's scenery and spend your own time. Life is such a waking up process.

This is the real world, the world of value and ability: the key to maintaining good relationships is not how friendly you are to others, but how strong you are. If one day, after a long-term accumulation, a person truly becomes an expert in a certain field, he will be pleasantly surprised that a real, valuable, so-called "efficient" network will break into the door. Therefore, a person's self-worth is the best ticket, the best pass. Therefore, instead of pleasing others, it is better to strengthen yourself. When you are strong enough, they will take the initiative to approach you. When you are good enough, they will take the initiative to make friends with you. As the saying goes, if you are wonderful, God will arrange it.

Only good people can become rich! Some people say: "If we compare life to a company, we are the best managers of our own company." It is worthwhile to manage yourself and make yourself better. Invest in your own brain, cultivate your emotions, and forge your own character. This heart is bright. The love given will never be in vain, it will definitely come back to you in another way. How you treat others, others will repay you; in the kindness you pay, there is a path for your future. All the surprises and good luck are your accumulated tenderness and kindness.

Recommendations on books to improve your life and be a better person:

Grit The Power of Passion and Perseverance

Ego is the Enemy The Fight to Master Our Greatest Opponent

Originals How Non-conformists Change the World the-power-of-habit

The Power of Habit Why We Do What We Do, and How to Change